New Cuckolds Couples

Important:
The number 1 rule in the Cuckolds lifestyle is that no always means NO!

Anyone can say no at anytime while involved in a cuckold fantasy. If the other person or people do not stop immediately then they are committing rape and will never be allowed to any Cuckolds events again.

Many couples enjoy fantasizing about having sex with other people, more and more of these people are deciding to make these fantasies become a reality, which is great news for the people already in the scene, as we always enjoy having new people come and join us. There are of course pitfalls and there are several things you should consider before you come and join in the fun.

Don't push or pull your partner into the scene.

Talk about your Cuckolding fantasies in the cold light of day, if you both want to make them become a reality, then start making contact with people. If either one of you is not ready, STOP. 

Dragging a reluctant partner to meet someone, or taking them to a party is not going to make them change their minds. There is a very high risk that it will lead to the end of your relationship with each other.

Decide what your boundaries are.

Don't go along to your first meeting without making sure you have agreed on what you are happy doing, what you are happy for your partner to do, and what area's are no go zones.

For example, maybe you agree that on your first meeting you will be happy for both of you to get involved in everything except full intercourse, as long as you both know what the boundaries are, and you have told the people you are meeting what they are you will have no problems as long as you stick to them.

When you get home that night, talk about the experience, be it good or bad, make sure you were both OK with it, and that you both want to move forward, or you want to stop.

If you are happy and want to move forward, decide what changes, if any, you want to make to the rules under which you both play. Never step outside your boundaries without agreement, don't try to modify the boundaries on the evening, always start the evening knowing exactly what is and is not allowed.

Warning: We have seen people get divorced because they did not keep to their agreements.

Never fall in love!

Cuckolding is about having fun with other people. Most of these people are in happy relationships and are looking to fulfill fantasies, not love. Declaring your love for someone who is attached is going to complicate the issues, and put strains on everyone's relationships, you could even destroy your own and the other persons marriage.

If you are looking for love check one of the many lonely hearts sites.

Getting Started

Decide on which fantasy you want to fulfill first, search the members on this site and find a person who you think will match your fantasy and drop them a message.

Read their profile carefully to make sure they are looking for the same things as you are.

Whoever you are going to meet remember that although its scary, the other people will probably be as nervous as you. Don't get drunk or drugged up. No one is going to get turned on by a person who is not in control of their faculties. A drink or two to steady the nerves is OK, bouncing off the walls and throwing up is not going to impress anyone.

Talk About Your Night

After the event it is always a good idea to discuss your night and decide what was good, what was bad, what you would do differently. There is a high probability you will both get turned on again and start playing.

What every you do make sure that you are doing it for fun. Don't let it take over your life.

Enjoy the Fun.

Never play with someone if you don't find them attractive.

Never do anything that you don't enjoy.

If you want to share your pictures we are happy to look. We both enjoy seeing people having fun.